Upcoming Events

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The Art of Repair: Healing Trauma Through the Lens of Relationship

Academy of therapy wisdom: Online Session — September 26, 2025

This 90-minute session offers a reflective exploration into the concept of boundaries, moving beyond clichés and pop-psychology to examine the nuanced, often messy reality of how boundaries work (and don’t work) in the context of trauma, healing, and human relationships. Drawing from personal stories, neuroscience, and metaphors from biology and physics, we will trace the developmental origins of boundary challenges and consider a four-level model of boundary response. Emphasis will be placed on the limits and pitfalls of various approaches—including why even the “best” boundary techniques often fail us in moments of relational difficulty—and the crucial role of compassion in boundary work. The presentation invites inquiry rather than presenting definitive answers, and aims to provide practical concepts that can be adapted for both clinical and personal life.

Transform Trauma Oxford 2025

Oxford, UK — September 28–30, 2025

Benjamin Fry joins Gabor Maté, Esther Perel, and others for Europe’s leading trauma and mental health event, focused on healing our relational world. With in-person and virtual access, the conference offers practical insights into trauma, relationships, and nervous system-informed care.

The Body Keeps the Score: Live in Conversation in London

London, UK — September 30, 2025

Join Dr Bessel van der Kolk and psychotherapist Benjamin Fry for a powerful conversation on trauma recovery. Drawing from decades of research and clinical practice, they’ll explore how trauma reshapes the body and brain, and how healing must involve more than talk therapy. Discover the vital role of relationships, community, and body-based approaches in reclaiming your life.

Syros Healing Waves Festival 2025

Syros, Greece — October 2–5, 2025

Join Benjamin Fry, Bessel van der Kolk, and Lucia Sky for a groundbreaking event exploring trauma, pleasure, and reconnection in the heart of the Cyclades. Attend in person or online for immersive talks, embodiment practices, and real conversations about healing relationships after trauma. Use code KHIRON10 for 10% off your ticket

Erotic Intelligence with Esther Perel

Paros, Greece — October 8–13, 2025

Esther Perel, Benjamin Fry, and Paul Browde lead this six-day exploration of desire, intimacy, and vitality in relationships. Set on the island of Paros, this experiential event welcomes individuals and couples ready to reconnect with themselves and each other through deep, honest work.

Past Events

The Art of Repair: Healing Trauma Through the Lens of Relationship

Academy of therapy wisdom: Online Session — September 12, 2025

This 90-minute session explores how unresolved childhood trauma shapes romantic relationships—and how couples can use practical, compassionate tools to build safe, loving, and joyful connections. Drawing on lived experience, clinical observation, and trauma-informed frameworks, this talk moves from personal narrative to actionable strategies. Attendees will learn how past wounds drive our defenses and needs in partnership, and how understanding these patterns can transform suffering into growth and deeper intimacy. The journey will include real case examples, reflective exercises, and time for questions.