Upcoming Events

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Transform Trauma Oxford 2025

Oxford, UK — September 28–30, 2025

Benjamin Fry joins Gabor Maté, Esther Perel, and others for Europe’s leading trauma and mental health event, focused on healing our relational world. With in-person and virtual access, the conference offers practical insights into trauma, relationships, and nervous system-informed care.

The Body Keeps the Score: Live in Conversation in London

London, UK — September 30, 2025

Join Dr Bessel van der Kolk and psychotherapist Benjamin Fry for a powerful conversation on trauma recovery. Drawing from decades of research and clinical practice, they’ll explore how trauma reshapes the body and brain, and how healing must involve more than talk therapy. Discover the vital role of relationships, community, and body-based approaches in reclaiming your life.

Syros Healing Waves Festival 2025

Syros, Greece — October 2–5, 2025
Join Benjamin Fry, Bessel van der Kolk, and Lucia Sky for a groundbreaking event exploring trauma, pleasure, and reconnection in the heart of the Cyclades. Attend in person or online for immersive talks, embodiment practices, and real conversations about healing relationships after trauma. Use code KHIRON10 for 10% off your ticket

Erotic Intelligence with Esther Perel

Paros, Greece — October 8–13, 2025
Esther Perel, Benjamin Fry, and Paul Browde lead this six-day exploration of desire, intimacy, and vitality in relationships. Set on the island of Paros, this experiential event welcomes individuals and couples ready to reconnect with themselves and each other through deep, honest work.

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How to heal Your Trauma & Tame Your ‘Invisible Lion’

Understand how your nervous system responds to threat and how those responses might be running your life. In this free 5-part series based on The Invisible Lion, Benjamin Fry unpacks the hidden impact of trauma on your body, your relationships, and your sense of self.