
Staying Close When It’s Hard – The Art of Regulating Together
When life gets tough, we often think the best way
Exploring how trauma shapes the way we relate, connect, and respond to life. These articles offer reflections on the nervous system, relationships, and recovery, through the lens of lived experience and clinical insight.
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When life gets tough, we often think the best way

We often admire independence. The ability to stand on our

Perfection is a seductive myth. It tells us that if

Conflict is an inevitable part of human relationships. Whether with

When most of us hear the word boundaries, we might

In emotionally intimate relationships, it is not uncommon for one

We often associate the word “trauma” with major, life-threatening events:

The phrase “opposites attract” suggests an almost uncontrollable or unconscious

Love can be beautiful, grounding, and life-giving. But for many,

Relationships form the foundation of human experience, providing a mirror
Understand how your nervous system responds to threat and how those responses might be running your life. In this free 5-part series based on The Invisible Lion, Benjamin Fry unpacks the hidden impact of trauma on your body, your relationships, and your sense of self.
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Understand how your nervous system responds to threat and how those responses might be running your life. In this free 5-part series based on The Invisible Lion, Benjamin Fry unpacks the hidden impact of trauma on your body, your relationships, and your sense of self.